21 Habits Monday, Jul 9 2007 

Goals littd 11:39 pm

1. Good oral hygiene and fresh breath.

2. Moist lips.

3. Smelling nice (shower gel, cologne, deodorant).

4. Looking good all the time (wearing nice clothes, having a style, wearing the right colours, getting good haircuts and using product every day).

5. Talking to strangers, always initiating conversations where possible with open-ended questions.

6. Listening well, active listening, understanding what interests people.

7. Touching people in a friendly way during conversation.

8. Speaking from the “I” perspective. As if I was the main character in the movie of my life.

9. Relating to people on an emotional level. Keeping it positive.

10. Smiling more in general conversation.

11. Disqualifying myself, refusing to occupy a pedestal of others making.

12. Being genuinely interested in other people.

13. Being approval giving, and never approval seeking.

14. Being honest with my intentions, self disclosure.

15. Touching in a more intimate manner.

16. Finding out logistical details about a girl’s situation.

17. Improving my eye contact habits.

18. Push-pull and teasing.

19. Sexual barriers.

20. 2 steps forward, 1 step back.

21. Sexual ability, being able to make her feel good physically.

 

Weekly Goal – July 7 Saturday, Jul 7 2007 

Goals littd 7:44 pm

This week my goal is to work on my oral hygiene. I’ll research, buy things and set up a habit of always having nice, fresh breath. I’ll track my progress sticking to my (not yet formed) ritual, with a 30 day trial.

 

My 1-year Plan Saturday, Jul 7 2007 

Goals littd 7:40 pm

I’ve set a lot of goals, and I maintain my desire to achieve those goals, BUT, I’ve realised that it’s impossible to stay focussed and motivated on more than one goal at once.

So I’ve picked one. This goal will be my project – 30 minutes 6 days a week. My private journalling will turn towards improving my necessary skills. So here’s my goal:

1 Year Goal:

“I have a beautiful, intelligent, sexy, positive and fun girlfriend”.

3 month goal:

“I genuinely enjoy going out and meeting new people, and comfortably and regularly hook up”

Every Saturday I’ll post my weekly goal.

 

My Goals Sunday, Jun 24 2007 

Goals littd 3:17 am

Long Term:

To achieve inner peace and happiness

To achieve financial independence

To achieve a network of fulfilling relationships

To enjoy being creative and writing songs and playing music

To own a house in nature in a beautiful part of the world, and visit it regularly

To have a beautiful family

To work in a career that allows me to make a real positive, tangible difference in the way people lead their lives

Be fluent in: English, Swedish, Spanish, French, Mandarin

To master: Guitar, Piano, Singing, Songwriting, Public Speaking

To be “well read”

To be “well travelled”

To stay in peak physical shape until the day I die

To be highly conscious of my diet and exercise

Short Term: (Five Years)

Visit: New York City, Chicago, Boston, Washington DC, London, Stockholm, Copenhagen, St Petersburg, The Swedish Laplands in Summer, Paris, Geneva, Florence, Rome, Venice, Athens, The Greek Islands, The Eagles Nest in Bavaria, Ceske Krumlov, Prague, Berlin.

Read: Emotional Intellience – Daniel Goleman, Social Intelligence – Daniel Goleman, Messages – , The Selfish Gene – Richard Dawkins, The Undercover Economist – Tim Harford, The Art of Travel – Alain De Botton, Accordion Crimes – E. Annie Proulx, The Sea – John Banville, The Famished Road – Ben Okri, Anil’s Ghost – Michael Ondaatje, Meditations – Marcus Aurelius, Manhood – Steve Biddulph, Happiness – Richard Layard, Impro – Keith Johnstone

Learn: Swedish, Singing (4 octave range), Improv Comedy, Blues Guitar, Self Defence, Public Speaking, Salsa Dancing, Windsurfing, Photoreading, Speed Typing, Journalling Techniques, Yoga, Massage, Conversation, Psychology, Civil Engineering, Urban Planning.

Experience: Skydiving, A Vipassana Meditation, Do Voluntary Work in a Third World Country, Complete a Triathlon,  Visit Auschwitz, Walk the Kokoda Track.

Complete a BA(psychology), a BE(civil engineering). To receive first class honours in my engineering degree. To achieve an 80% average in all classes for the remainder of my studies.

To complete a postgraduate degree in planning or engineering for sustainable development.